‘It can spare people so much pain’: what is an advance directive and should you get one?
My parents died three years and two ICU rooms apart. Both were still in their 60s. Neither had a finished will, much less an advance directive – a set of care instructions someone prepares in case they become incapacitated – that could have guided my sister and me. In our early 30s, shellshocked by brutal surprise, we made decisions that determined the course of their final hours.
Today, we trust that we honored their wishes, but doubt and distress linger.
Our experience, though devastating, is ha...
Today, we trust that we honored their wishes, but doubt and distress linger.
Our experience, though devastating, is ha...